With these sex positions you can also bang a small penis

It is probably one of the most traumatic sex issues for men and can also affect you as a woman: When he not only thinks his penis is too small, but actually hasn’t been given much thought by nature. Please do not grumble or roll your eyes! This is not only mean, but also completely unnecessary. Good, fulfilling sex does not fail because of a rather short penis. How it works, we will show you here.

At what point is a penis actually small?

One thing in advance: pornography conveys an unrealistic image, and not only of women’s bodies. Forget about 6-inch fantasies. The average male penis measures about 13 centimetres in an erect state (flaccid just over 9), according to a large British study. But of course only you can decide what is large or small for you according to your own feelings. In principle, however, good sex is no problem even with a penis of below-average size.

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Is good sex also possible with a small penis?

Sure you do. Length is not important. After all, the entrance of the vagina is the most sensitive and the G-spot is also relatively far forward. That’s where every penis goes. By the way, you will have the greatest pleasure anyway if it knows how to make you clitorally happy. It depends on the right technique and above all on the right sex position during sex. And, of course, that you are sufficiently aroused. You can best tell him how he gets you there.

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Which sexual positions are best for a small penis?

The most “fulfilling” positions are those in which the penis gets where it is supposed to go as unhindered as possible. There are a whole range of sex positions in which the man can penetrate his partner particularly deeply. We have selected 9 positions from the Kamasutra, which are guaranteed to bring you high flights on the mattress.

1. the elephant

Sexstellungen aus dem Kamasutra: Der Elefant Makes him look taller: Sex position “The Elephant”. © Yoco/Dutch Uncle Ltd.

So much for uncharming! You lie relaxed and with your legs stretched out on your stomach while he approaches from behind and nestles against your back. His legs are also stretched out to the back. While he supports himself with his hands next to your upper body, he can penetrate you from behind. To feel him even more intensely, press your thighs firmly together.

Why is it called “elephant”? Because in this sex position, his upper body stretched upwards supposedly resembles an elephant’s trunk. No, no, no. NICHT um, to check it out!

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2. the raised position

Sexstellungen aus dem Kamasutra: Die erhobene Stellung In the “raised position” your legs rest on his shoulders. © Yoco/Dutch Uncle Ltd.

It sounds like a public service, but it’s not. Basically, all sex positions where the woman’s legs are stretched upwards or resting on his shoulders promise quite deep, intense thrusts. In the “raised position” he has the best chances, while your G-spot is particularly well stimulated. To do this, lie on your back with your legs bent and he will kneel in front of you and penetrate your vagina. In order to be able to apply even deeper shocks, it can slightly lift your pelvis.

By pressing your thighs together firmly, you further increase the friction.

3. encounter with a cow

Sexstellung aus dem Kamasutra: Die Kuhstellung Exhausting, but exciting: Sex position “Encounter with a cow”. © Yoco/Dutch Uncle Ltd.

Yes, the name of this position is an impertinence, and you have to show some acrobatics for it. On the other hand, this position gives you extremely intense feelings, because the man can penetrate them particularly deeply. The cow position is performed standing up, the man penetrates you from behind. You, on the other hand, bend far forward and support yourself with your hands on the floor. If this is too strenuous, you can also support yourself on the back of the sofa or the edge of the bed.

It can either embrace your hips or spoil your clitoris with your hand.

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4. the open flower

Sexstellungen aus dem Kamasutra: Die offene Blüte From the hip: Sex position “The open blossom”. © Yoco/Dutch Uncle Ltd.

No, this has nothing to do with having sex with flowers! When you are lying on your back, you bend your legs wide open so that you can comfortably support yourself with the tips of your feet. Then you lift your pelvis and shift your weight to the area between your shoulder blades. Here the man can penetrate wonderfully deep into you and support you slightly with his hands if necessary. If it becomes too strenuous, simply push one or more pillows under your bottom.

5. the wide open position

Sexstellungen aus dem Kamasutra: Die weit geöffnete Stellung The “wide open position” is what its name promises. © Yoco/Dutch Uncle Ltd.

In the wide open position lie on your back and stretch your legs in a V-shape into the air. Depending on how flexible you are, you can try to grab your ankles with your hands and pull your legs as far as possible towards your upper body. This will allow your partner to penetrate even deeper into you and you will be able to feel him even more intensely.

6. phoenix plays in red cave

Sexstellungen aus dem Kamasutra: Phönix spielt in roter Höhle The sex position “Phoenix plays in red cave” has probably the strangest name. © Yoco/Dutch Uncle Ltd.

Much more provocative than in this position a woman can hardly receive her partner. You lie on your back, legs spread and pulled as far as possible towards your upper body. He enters you either kneeling or lying down and comes incredibly close to you. Since you can hardly move in this position, the rhythm, depth and intensity of the strokes are entirely up to the man. But of course you can control him with words…

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7. worship

Sexstellungen aus dem Kamasutra: Die sechste Position The sex position “worship” is known by many as “doggy style”. © Yoco/Dutch Uncle Ltd.

Yeah, the name is a little weird, but the sex isn’t. You kneel on all fours with your thighs spread, your back wide open as it enters you from behind. The good thing for you is that if he proceeds slowly and sensitively, he can easily stimulate your G-spot. You can either support yourself on your arms or rest your head. In this sex position, especially deep thrusts are guaranteed in any case – even with a rather small penis.

8. high up

Sexstellungen aus dem Kamasutra: Enge Stellung The position “high up” is extremely intimate. © Axel Kock

A very intense position where the partners come incredibly close and have eye contact throughout. You lie on your back, legs crossed and leaning against his upper body. He penetrates them kneeling in front of you. By crossing your legs, the pressure on his penis is intensified. If you are very flexible, he can press against your legs and penetrate a little deeper.

9. split the bamboo

Sexstellungen aus dem Kamasutra: Den Bambus spalten A sex position called “Splitting the bamboo” promises to be at least effective. © Axel Kock

It sounds brute, but this sex position is ultimately just a rather sophisticated variation of the missionary position. By spreading one leg and placing your bottom between his thighs, he can penetrate you deeper. During the act you change the leg position again and again. In other words: The leg you stretched out before is placed on his shoulder and vice versa.

Once again for the record (also and especially for him): A smaller penis is no problem! For most women it is easier to handle than a penis that is too big. If you constantly have to reckon with your partner pushing too deeply during sex in the heat of the moment with his overlength penis and hurting you so much, you will quickly lose the desire.